Our
 son is currently an International Medical Corps aid worker, stationed 
in Lebanon. Maybe that’s why we were hit so hard by New Jersey Gov. 
Chris Christie’s cavalier attitude about the treatment Kaci Hickox 
was subjected to upon her return after treating Ebola patients in West 
Africa. 
For nearly 20 years Dave has been engaged in humanitarian aid
 work, beginning with a two-year stint in Kazakhstan with the Peace 
Corps. He was working in Afghanistan the day the Twin Towers fell 13 
years ago. From there he spent a year in Darfur, Sudan, providing 
primary health care, maternal and child health, water and sanitation to a
 village of 13,000 in an area ravaged by war. Other hotspots have been 
Niger, Nigeria, and Congo. 
We hold our breaths daily as we watch the news of 
hostage-taking and beheadings. He’ll return to his wife and our 
six-year-old granddaughter at his home in London next week after six 
weeks in Beirut, overseeing the nine mobile medical units and 45 health 
facilities serving more than 680,000 Syrian refugees with health 
awareness sessions. 
Our family has a history of holding its breath while loved 
ones were at risk overseas. During World War II my uncle Al went down 
with his ship shortly after Pearl Harbor, during the battle of the Java 
Sea. He was captured by the Japanese and held in a POW camp for the rest
 of the war. For three years my grandparents knew only that he was 
missing in action. My uncle Richard was captured by the Nazis in Belgium
 and held as a POW for a year. Both of them returned home, but Uncle 
Richard spent the rest of his life in a mental hospital. 
During several of our son’s country assignments we could not 
communicate with him for weeks at a time. Fortunately, we have been able
 to stay in touch through Skype during his Lebanon assignment. 
Which all brings me back to Gov. Christie’s take on the way Hickox was treated upon returning home after her heroism in West 
Africa, passing it off with, “There’s been all kinds of malarkey about 
this. She was inside the hospital in a climate-controlled area with 
access to her cell phone, access to the internet, and takeout food from 
the best restaurants in Newark. She was doing just fine.” 
Doctors agree that Hickox has been symptom-free and 
incapable of passing along the Ebola virus since her return to this 
country. But even if she had been infectious, treating her like a pariah
 and not the humanitarian hero she is only shows how driven Christie is 
by political opportunism than responsible leadership. 
At a public event every time a speaker invites members of the
 military to stand and be recognized for their service I applaud loudly 
together with everyone else. But I also wonder if there ever will come a
 day when others who served this country heroically, but without bearing
 arms, will get equal recognition.
